I finally did it. i came out to chris. it took me about two hours last night while im'ing him to work up the balls to do it, but i finally told him. i'll post in more details later, but right now. i don't have time. surprisingly, he said almost jeff's words exactly in reaction and promised to keep it bwtween us and on the dl, so that went well. well, i have to run. gonna go hit the slopes. peace.