meow

Adam A's picture

i think i'm starting to understand why my friends say i dress like a russian prostitute...

JEFF (and anyone with knowledge in this area) i need a little "advice" on sex clubs....what are they like? and what do i wear to one? coz i'm going to one with a boy on thursday!

just came back from shopping using the vouchers my family gave me for my 21st.
so firstly i went and got new shoes...i don't need new shoes...i have the best shoes ever...but i thought...why not get another pair of pointy boots? different colour ovbiously. so i got pointy...white...leather...shiny boots...with a cuban heel and a silver capping on the front. tehe!
then it was time for clothes. i figured i wanted bottoms and tops....the gift vouchers weren't heaps and these are expensive shops so i was thinking maybe i'll get to buy like one item in each of the two shops i have the cards for (both are VERY trendy).
so i went into one and quickly realized the gift cards wont get me far. i saw this uber sexy shirt....white with blue stripes...a random white pocket that protrudes onto one of the blue stripes (thick stripes)....a generally very...sailorish look about it. though it's one of those shirts that look good on the dolls but not on the body....but TADA! tried it and it looked fucking awesome...i almost wanted to fuck myself...my nipples were hard (dunno why....and no it has nothing to do with anything i'm writing)
went to pay and had a little left over so i also picked up tight sexy undies...maybe i'll wear them to my little fuck session tommorow...or the one on thursday.
anyway next shop and it was time for finding pants...but there was nothing i really loved until i found these trousers that were being cleared...problem is there wasn't many sizes in the colour i wanted....the shop keeper suggested i try grey and i told him they look a little ...er...shiny...(having flashes of that with the new boots made me think i would have russian whore written all over me)...but i did anyway and it looked awesome so i bouht it....again had money left over so i bought another pair of tight sexy underpants...orange this time....so i guess the only dilema left to solve is which to wear to which sex date?

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jeff's picture

Sex clubs...

I've only been in the sex club for a spoken word event, not sex.

Depending on the set-up, you usually pay to get in and they give you a towel and a key for the locker room, where you lock up your clothes and tie the towel around you. So that answers what to wear.

In SF, sex clubs are all open spaces, so you can't have sex in private as an HIV precaution (The staff walk around and make sure everyone's being safe). In bath houses, you can often get your own room with a closing/locking door, and do whatever in there with privacy.

Beyond that every club is different, some have different theme rooms and you can try things out in them. Some clubs are mixed, though, so you might need to sort out where the gay area is. One club in SF has three floors, and I think the breakdown is straight, shemale, gay (but I'm not certain).

The bigger question, if you're already bringing the boy, why bother with the sex club?

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"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis

Adam A's picture

meow

i believe this sex club is the bath kind and does have private rooms/booths/whatever for privacy....and i think they do give you a towel also...coz there's no way i'm walking around naked in the open...aahh...not on sweetness.
as for the question...the boy and i have nowhere to have sex so he suggested that (it's a hell of a lot cheaper than a hotel)...he doesn't know this yet but i was thinking perhaps of finding a third or a couple to play around with too :P

jeff's picture

Well...

You should bring that up in advance. Don't spring it on him at the club.

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"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis

Adam A's picture

meow

i should...but i wont...coz i'm a prick...and because i think he wont be into it if i say it in advance...whereas i think he'll loosen up once we're inside....and obviously i wont pressure him...it's only if he wants...truth be told i don't even want him that much...i just really want him to show me where the sex club is for future reference! :P