meow

Adam A's picture

i'm gonna be good from now on, promise! no more one night stands except for the straight boy...well i think we can officially call him bi, so lets just call him by his name...Aviv.
no more alcohol...ok i can't expect myself to stop completely..so...lets say, one night every few weeks, beyond that, a glass of wine here and there....no more.
start eating again...preferably healthy...but eating at all is a good start.
i'll get the blood test for my diabetes and that HIV test while i'm at it.
i'll try and put more effort into school and less on other things
ill continue looking for a job, just up the enthusiasm on that one
go less on the dating site
and replace all my sexy pictures with portraits
and no more men over say...27 years old
only dates, no sex, but not over 27
start talking to my family again maybe
and sleep in less, sleep earlier, sleep at all.
now lets see if i can keep that up.

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jeff's picture

I agree with everything...

Except no sex with people over 27.

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"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis

Adam A's picture

meow

u'r an exception jeffy...u'r welcome at any time....and btw ABOUT FUCKING TIME YOU FLIRTED BACK! what's a guy gotta do to get u'r attention!?

patnelsonchilds's picture

I get Jeff's attention all

I get Jeff's attention all the time, but it's usually because I've said something that annoys or offends him. Of course, you do that too, so I don't really know what the secret is. ;)

Good luck, sweetheart. I know you can do it. <3

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- Pat Nelson Childs
"bringing strong gay & lesbian characters to Sci-Fi & Fantasy"

Adam A's picture

meow

<3 u too, wanker

ferrets's picture

this.........

should be interesting.

jeff's picture

Nah...

I don't really tend to flirt or have sexual discussions on Oasis (at least where I'm involved in the action, which to me is the key difference. I'll say a lot of dirty things, but I'm never involved in the stuff I say), since it muddies things.

Like, Adam is 21, and all legal, so yeah, I can flirt back to him, but because he's also young enough to flirt with people who are underage, I think it has some bridging effect, where if I flirt with Adam, and Adam flirts with X, then it seems X and I could flirt in the same thread. Too messy.

That's why I don't do it often. I tend to pursue guys around my age, so I don't need to create a situation on here where it can look like I'm shopping around for a bf. I'm not.

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"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis

bulldyke's picture

jefff...you make a u-haul

jefff...you make a u-haul look simple.

and that really does take skill. so, *applause*. :P

Bulldyke
"I think some mistakes are meant to be made, because we can't help but hope that they won't be mistakes."

jeff's picture

Hmm...

I've no idea what that means, but thank you.

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"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis

bulldyke's picture

your whole analysis of who

your whole analysis of who you can and can't flirt with, based on age, and who THEY might flirt with, and etc., etc. it makes us lesbians with our second date u-hauls look simple. :P

and you're welcome. :D

Bulldyke
"I think some mistakes are meant to be made, because we can't help but hope that they won't be mistakes."

RegretShouldntExist's picture

Erm....

Erm....

bulldyke's picture

good luck, adam! you know

good luck, adam! you know we'll love you whoever you are, and whatever you do, and it's nice to see you trying to take care of yourself.

i really do think you can do it, despite how hard beating addictions can be. let me/us know if you need anything.

*hug*

Bulldyke
"I think some mistakes are meant to be made, because we can't help but hope that they won't be mistakes."

Uncertain's picture

How drunk were you, Adam?

How drunk were you, Adam?