TrustIssues...I NEED HELP with this......

centerfielder08's picture

Hi.
I think I have trust issues with men...a lot of crap's been going through my mind lately.
How do I combat this?

---Eli.

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fox333's picture

hmmmm..... well why don't

hmmmm..... well why don't you trust men?

sounds like you need a hug. *hug*

centerfielder08's picture

i do need a hug. i always am

i do need a hug.

i always am afraid there going to do something to me. i had a really bad thought about this once that scared me shitless ( no, not literally) since then. and i hate it. :( *yucky!*

ew

jeff's picture

Easy...

Avoid men.

---
"Sell your cleverness and buy bewilderment." - Rumi

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fox333's picture

what was the thought? sounds

what was the thought?

sounds like you need a hug. *hug*

centerfielder08's picture

the thought was that my dad

the thought was that my dad was going to rape me.

is there a way to learn to trust them better again?

fox333's picture

that will do it. sounds like

that will do it.
sounds like you need a hug. *hug*
have you gone to see a counciler?

centerfielder08's picture

i havent told any adults

i havent told any adults about this i dont think. im scared they're going to think im insane.

centerfielder08's picture

is that a bad sign if i

is that a bad sign if i thought of that (about my dad)?

fox333's picture

a bad sign how? sounds like

a bad sign how?

sounds like you need a hug. *hug*

btj1995's picture

Has He?

When your around your dad, does he make you feel uncomfortable? Have you ever felt threatened by him because of anything he's said/done? Has he ever hurt you? If any of these are a yes, you really should talk to someone, anyone at all who's remotely close to you, or see a councilor of some sort.

-BTJ

centerfielder08's picture

He hasn't raped me. When I

He hasn't raped me.
When I was around him this once, for a few days, it made me so uncomfortable because I thought he was going to touch me in a way I didn't want him to.
He has never physically hurt me, no.

I just got sooooo scared that one weekned.

fox333's picture

*hug*

*hug*