Trying to get closer

centerfielder08's picture

...bad idea to try and start stuff with a friend? And how do I do that?
She's lesbian also but I don't think she's into me like that. How do I get her to be?


jeff's picture


You subtly indicate you're not opposed to the idea in a way that preserves the friendship, then it's up to her. If she's into you, you proceed. If she's not, you don't.

You don't get someone to like you romantically if they don't. That only happens in Meg Ryan movies.

"Sell your cleverness and buy bewilderment." - Rumi

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centerfielder08's picture

I see. Yeah. Maybe I should

I see. Yeah. Maybe I should just keep her as a friend, now that I think about it. I don't want to screw up such a good friendship just so I can say that I've had experience.

And anyway...which one is Meg Ryan and what movies is she in?

fox333's picture

i think shes the chick from

i think shes the chick from youve got mail and sleepless in seattle.

"I feel like Nacy Drew in the mystery of the midlife crisis."
-Roger Bannister
The Stepford Wives

Splash's picture

Yes, she is. ~~~ the voice

Yes, she is.

~~~ the voice of your eyes is deeper than all roses ~ e e cummings ~~~