What next?

Bi the Book's picture

Hey guys,
now that I have figured out that I am bisexual, (for all of you who helped me figure out what I am, you guys have a special place in my heart) I don't know what to do next. I've told my one gay friend that I am bisexual, but I don't know who else to tell. Most of my friends outside of school are conservatives and I don't know if I should tell them. I really love the time we spend together and I really don't want to lose that.

I don't think that my one best friend would change anything physically, but I'm sure we wouldn't hang out as much and we wouldn't be as close. I am really not ready to give that up yet. Any advice? I could really use some right about now. I know what you guys are probably thinking.

''It's just one complaint after the other with her'' but it's a lot more complicated than just that. I could end up with a lot less friends, and these friends have become family to me. What should I do? =(

-Bi the Book


jacjessen90's picture


i don't think that!!! and here's some advise, i think that just by your telling us, 'the oasis ones', you gain friends by the day! so if you lose the others, just b*tch to us and we'll help you!!!

Bi the Book's picture


Ill keep that advice in mind. It's just hard because I've know then for a little under 10 years, so to loose them just like that would be really hard. They are family. Just unaccepting family. hehe

RegretShouldntExist's picture


If they were family they would accept u! I get its hard but...be yourself and if they were true friends they wouldnt care. Mine dont well most dont and I feel so relieved...But only 8 of my friends know...well about that but ANYWAYS Back to u! Yeah tell them. If u lose them oh well. Me and other people at school are here for u and especially me cuz Im awesome!

RegretShouldntExist's picture


Kelz. U know Im always here for ya! Whenever ya need it lol. Gah damn this cough i have! Sorry geting off topic! Ummm where was i...OH YEAH Thanx for trustin me so much for your secrets and I hope you will trust me more in the future. Im here for any of your issues :) Like a bri but...smaller and asian lol

Bi the Book's picture

luv ya 2

He thx. Hoos Bri?