My name is Bethany. When I was 13 my friend came out to me that she was bisexual. That didn't really matter to me, I have always been open-minded to homosexuals and bisexuals. I will admit, it scared for a second because we were sleeping in the same bed at the time and I was to young to realize just because my friend was bi, it didn't mean that she liked me like that. From that point on, a seed of doubt was planted. I never really have liked guys more than friends. I constantly notice how girls look. When I started watching the show South of Nowhere, I started questioning my sexuality even more. A few weeks after that, I found out I was moving to Oklahoma. The move occupied me for a few months. Then summer happened so I was put off even longer, from lack of seeing friends, other than texting and talking on the phone. I came back to school and just threw myself into band and schoolwork. This guy started noticing me. We dated, but it didn't last long. I wasn't really attracted to him more than as a friend, plus he wasn't faithful. Now, two years after I first questioned myself, I found I still don't know the answer. I catch myself staring at my friends chests. My one friend is bi, i find myself thinking about her in a more-than-friends way. I am more confused than ever, and I don't know which I like, or if I like both genders. I have tried talking to my friend, asking her how she knew. She told me that she just knew. She made it seem so simple. I just would like some advice, if possible, letting me know how other people knew. I am way to scared to ask my friends, not knowing how they will react. I just would like some guidance from someone who understands and isn't judging.