Sorry and bye...

A Lonely Wind's picture

I guess I just don't belong here. Sorry.

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Adam A's picture

meow

have a nice life

jeff's picture

Eh...

It's a pretty forgiving site. You did join at a pretty tense time here, so your observations weren't the best intro... but stick around, you'll be fine.

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"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis

WantsOut's picture

Good-fucking-riddance. Signed

Good-fucking-riddance.

WantsOut's picture

Forgiving? Yeah, right,

Forgiving? Yeah, right, first post he tells me that I'm emotionally unstable. Fuck that!

No forgiveness!

jeff's picture

Well...

Don't prove his point. :-)

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"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis

Siovampire's picture

um...i dont know what's goin

um...i dont know what's goin on here...but y'all gotta chill....this is a nice site remember? i joined because it was chill and not tense. Wind, please stick around. it's not worth leaving now.

Adam A's picture

meow

bahaha, i <3 jeff

Adam A's picture

meow

fine fine fine i'll level...
i think u'r little observations weren't really fair, nice or necessary, but this much is true...
a) it's a forgiving site, there's A LOT of really nice people here and you will (despite your introduction) make a lot of good friends here, i garantee you that.
b) there's no such thing as "don't belong" in Oasia, if I fit so does anyone
c) it's a shame not to give this place a shot...you will enjoy this place if you give it a shot and get to know us..nobody here is that bad.
and finally, (d), you did come at a very intense, charged time for the site and say exactly what made a lot of us get very upset, so consider that the reaction to what you wrote was...shall we say...more stingy than normal.

RegretShouldntExist's picture

...Well....Im sure MOST of

...Well....Im sure MOST of us didnt mean to.....get so intense....But we are a close...site and when we get insulted we help each other...some overreact *cough*Wantsout*Cough* But he has a reason too...But we should just forget about it....Please stick around. We will warm up to you.....I promise :)

dykehalo's picture

I'm not goin to beg you to

I'm not goin to beg you to stay or tell yoou to go. Do what you want. Yes lots of people on here are messed up and it can be a "WHAT THE FUCK GET SOME HELP" type thing but i've been that messed up person before. It's give a bit, take alot on here. There's also alot of love on this site. I met one of my best friends on this site so do as you please but you may want to give it a bit of time and actually post some journals and stuff ebfore deciding. But you can go if you want and it'll be okay.
~~~Fear is only a verb if you let it be.. don't you dare let go of my hand~~~

AoiYumi's picture

It's okay. We all make

It's okay. We all make mistakes. Next time use a little more sensitivity. And be sure to apologize to the people you hurt. It is up to them to forgive or not.

music is life's picture

um I think I missed what all

um I think I missed what all of this is about but Oasis is an amazing place. The people here are all very different and thats what makes this place so awsome.
And if you do decide to leave, Oasis is not the only gay youth site on the internet...

Lehcure's picture

Oasis is the only AMAZING

Oasis is the only AMAZING gay youth site online..
EVER..

Riku's picture

Seconded

>_>

music is life's picture

That is true.but i think it

That is true.
but i think it would do this kid some good to possibly find another site, ya know? idk i was just trying to be nice even though they might not really deserve it.....

Lehcure's picture

music is life, you are a

music is life, you are a wonderful shiny bright light. :) (just feeling random)
mhmm, yeah, I know what you're saying.

bulldyke's picture

you offended people on here,

you offended people on here, intentionally or not. you offended ME by insulting my friends, and, speaking from that, that's why so many people are being rude (myself included).

if you think you need a place like this, then apologize. the whole point of this site is to be tolerent/accepting (and yes, i'm well aware that i was one of the people who flamed you).

personally, i'm still pissed about the things you said about my friends. and as a person who's 'mentally unstable' (meaning that i've been in therepy for years, and i've been pumped full of more drugs than i can count), what you said is offensive. but hey. if you can be big enough to apologize, then i can be big enough to forgive you, and move on.

Bulldyke
"As my mother always said, there's nothing that says 'stay out of my airspace' quite like a couple of F-18s." ~Rachel Maddow

Nanook's picture

Everyone, pull your sticks

Everyone, pull your sticks out of your ass. Be the bigger person and just fucking forgive and forget. Seriously! Like come on, don't you think the kid feels bad enough? You all hammered on him more than you would a whore and even now, you're still hammering on him! Sure, what he said was pretty rash, but hell, most people on this site have probably thought the same thing at some point!

And really, if you want to have an impact on someone's life, using a positive approach, rather than a negative approach, is always best. So come on, be the bigger man and forgive the kiddo.

patnelsonchilds's picture

Don't go sweetie. Just say

Don't go sweetie. Just say you're sorry to Tim and Adam. Everyone will forgive you. This is a wonderful place, and none of us want you to be alone.
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- Pat Nelson Childs
"bringing strong gay & lesbian characters to Sci-Fi & Fantasy"

Adam A's picture

meow

meow nah you don't even have to say sorry to me, i'm ovvvveeeeerrrrr it...forgotten...so stay and post again...tell us about u'rself!

RegretShouldntExist's picture

Yeah yeah! please dont go :)

Yeah yeah! please dont go :) We are nice people....well some more then others but...yeah anyways! heheh
Come post random things like what happened in your day or something :)

Splash's picture

hey...

People are actually really nice here. But, emotions have been running very high lately, and your post was tactless at best. Thus you became the target of the worst flaming I can remember seeing on Oasis.

I do think you owe Pat, Tim, and Adam a big apology, but as far as any future posts you may make, I suspect you've learned from this experience and am willing to give you another chance. I think the track record you develop here, if any, will eventually carry more weight than your first post.

~~~ the voice of your eyes is deeper than all roses ~ e e cummings ~~~

WantsOut's picture

... I still don't see why I

... I still don't see why I should forgive the wanker.

bulldyke's picture

because it's the right thing

because it's the right thing to do, and because there's no good reason to not. yeah, okay, he/she offended you. what good does it do anyone to stay pissed at an insult that was slung at you out of ignorance?

and if you're too small to forgive em, then at least stay out of their way. oasis has been a haven for you...now you need to be able to let it be a haven for others, even if you're mad at them.

Bulldyke
"As my mother always said, there's nothing that says 'stay out of my airspace' quite like a couple of F-18s." ~Rachel Maddow

WantsOut's picture

I hate being wrong. I

I hate being wrong.

I really, really do.

Fine. I will do my best to forgive and forget. Howeveer uch I dislike this person, I eventually stopped hating Adam, didn't I?

WantsOut's picture

Cuz it's hard to hate

Cuz it's hard to hate yourself.

Heheh, this was a fun social experiment!

You're going to hate me now, I think. Or if not, at least be mightily pissed. I've wsaste your time, haven't I?

bulldyke's picture

a suggestion, if you're

a suggestion, if you're reading this...message or e-mail jeff, and ask him to delete your account. then start a new one, and start fresh with us all, with a new screen name. if you want...just a thought. :)

Bulldyke
"As my mother always said, there's nothing that says 'stay out of my airspace' quite like a couple of F-18s." ~Rachel Maddow