so i need ur advice please

RaspberriesAreFun's picture

So I need some help. I've gone on a couple of dates with this one girl and I don't think I'm actually attracted to her in that way if you know what I mean. I don't know how to tell her, though. Is it okay to text her about it?

Here's what I'm thinking about saying:

I just wanted to tell you that ur a wonderful person and I'd love for us to remain friends but I'm not really interested in you in that way. I didn't want to lead you on in any way which is why I wanted to tell you this as soon as possible so that I don't waste any of your time.

Sound good?

So yeah. I made a comment on facebook about having a bonfire this weekend. The hott guy said he wanted to go. Should I invite him?


Splash's picture

message sounds good...

...but I'm not so sure about the idea of texting it to her. It might be better to call her or tell her in person.

~~~ the voice of your eyes is deeper than all roses ~ e e cummings ~~~

lacking_direction's picture

I agree with splash since

I agree with splash since you've been on a few dates. Might as well invite that guy to the bonfire if you think he's cool. Unless it's like a little thing with your friends and it would be awkward for them.

ferrets's picture

this is.......

somthing that is best in person

a ferrets is a ferret, no matter how much it seems like a weasel. if only i could say the same for people.

jeff's picture


Texting is lame.

I'm so into you, I decided to not be in the same room as you, and share 140 characters of exactly how I feel?

"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis