ok, how to tell her? --please help!

tenmilestilts's picture

o-kay...so, i've finally decided to tell K i like her, but i'm not sure how. should i just come out and tell her, or should i just flirt with her (more than usual) and let her figure it out or what?

...i have no idea how to do this. plus i'm scared i'm gonna lose my best friend. but i'm tired of wishing she was mine.

any advice on how to tell her, or just in general?

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holahaveamuffin18's picture

you're out to K, right? cuz

you're out to K, right? cuz telling her you're queer AND that you like her might be a little too much, all at once.
other than that... be sure you trust her & good luck

tenmilestilts's picture

haha yeah i'm out to her.

haha yeah i'm out to her. cuz yeah that would be a bit much.
thanx!
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holahaveamuffin18's picture

oh, & i forgot to tell you

oh, & i forgot to tell you to tell us what happensss! like, as soon as it happens

tenmilestilts's picture

por supuesto! y'all will be

por supuesto! y'all will be the first to know! (the only ones, true, but who's getting technical?)
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typicalmusician's picture

Well, seems like you're in

Well, seems like you're in about the same situation I was in with E, in a way (except I didn't know I was out to her and had been for the better/worst part of a year...it's funnier in retrospect). I would vote for flirting with her more than usual (yes, I know exactly what you mean), and keep your senses open to the possibility that she likes you back and she's just on a different schedule than you with coming to terms with it or something to that effect.

In a nutshell, flirt with her, see if she acts differently around/towards you than other people, regardless of gender, and if the opportunity presents itself, arrange your face in such a fashion as to kiss her. And try it? best of luck. And if my advice doesn't really seem to apply, please ditch it at the first available opportunity. :)

-KBO-

tenmilestilts's picture

haha. no, thanks, it does

haha. no, thanks, it does seem to apply very much.
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Abelle's picture

Well...

Well... you could always send her a note. That's how my best friend told me she liked me. :) Just be sure not to put off talking to her about it face-to-face afterwards. Best of luck. <3

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tenmilestilts's picture

muchas gracias! i do like

muchas gracias! i do like notes...not impersonal, but not talking directly. i might do that...but i will try to talk to her first. a note will be my Plan B XD
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Two wrongs don't make a right but three lefts do!