Contemplativeness

Peregrine's picture

Okay, I hit my usual drama again... I like two boys, and I can't decide which one to be with. One is my current bf, but he lives really far away, and I don't know how much longer until I can see him. The other is now a porn model, and I have known him and liked him longer, but he is in Canada. I keep getting these weird mixed signals from my brain, one says Joe(canada), one says Mat(chicago/maryland), and one says both(but I don't think that would go down too well...)

Any advice? They are both amazing people through and through...

Comments

elph's picture

Try This...

First, make sure that sex is no longer the driving force when you go to bed tonight... Then as you're embracing your extra pillow, which one of the two makes the better fit.

Sorry, but that's the best I have. Does it work for you?

jacjessen90's picture

i think ...this is the new topic of our e-mail...

...this is the new topic of our e-mail! "look at him! i would die for him! i would kill for him! either way, what bliss!" ~gomez addams

jeff's picture

Hmm...

if I'm reading this right, you're choosing between two long distance relationships? In which case, eh, why be exclusive until you can be in the same room with someone... keep them all on the hook until you're in the same town as them. Otherwise, you're not looking for the third candidate, who lives where you do.

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"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis

Peregrine's picture

I like them both, and sex is

I like them both, and sex is not a driving factor. Mat said he would come down to here and visit, but we don't know when that will be...

"I'm not the one who's so far away, when I feel the snake bite into my Veins! Never did I wanna be here again, and I don't remember why I came."