Need Helpp. :(

ZBoy7's picture

I'm gay... i just realized this.
except i have a girlfriend. and i don't wanna tell her that the reason i wanna break up is because i'm gay.
even if i made up a reason, if she saw me or heard. about me going out with a guy, she'd like kill herself... because nowadays, at least at my school, it's social suicide to date a gay guy before he comes out. and to make matters worse, i've already met her parents and i have a crush on her gay best friend (he's literally the cutest boy i've ever seen, other than ones on TV).

ugh.

what do i do?

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Tophat's picture

Read Swimmerguy's journals.

You tell her you're gay.

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
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ZBoy7's picture

what's your experience?

not trying to sound mean, just curious.

cherrylover's picture

tell her

yes tell her ur gay, but becareful how u do it.
its going to be hard at first because evryone will judge, but u need the truth out ther and after the truth is out ther, u will feel better and then u can go out wth her hot gay friend,

ZBoy7's picture

how should i do it?

sorry, i'm 15 and in a bad stage in my life as well. my father died 10 years ago. then she remarried a man 5 years ago and they got divorced 2 months ago. so now we are barely getting by, and since my family is catholic and belonging to the republican party, i don't know how well it would sit with my mom or anyone else in my family...

all this is aside from what would happen at school...

aside from my family issues, i also am very passionate about basketball and i have no clue how well my teammates would react if they discovered is was gay, especially since we change in the locker room everyday.

swimmerguy's picture

I swim.

I SWIM! We change in the locker room and have naked conversations and they don't care. And they don't care if I watch them swim or anything. If they are your true friends, they will not care.

If you're going through hell, keep going. ~Winston Churchill

ZBoy7's picture

haha

i envy you

cherrylover's picture

AMAZNG

hes amazing

ZBoy7's picture

i realized

i realized. haha

Tophat's picture

I'm his favorite.

:D

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
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cherrylover's picture

who cares

who cares

swimmerguy's picture

I love EVERYONE!

Except for those few who have wronged me horribly. But, I also love some just a little more than others.

If you're going through hell, keep going. ~Winston Churchill

cherrylover's picture

loveing everyone

well i love everyone except tophat now

cherrylover's picture

heere is what u do

ur family will love and support u with what u are

if being gay make u happy then dont let anyone tell u differnet,
yes the boys on the basketball team may feel uncomfortable, but they will get used to it, if they are ur friends they will be what friends are

remember
u are who u are
dont let anyone tell u different

be happy, this is ur life and u should be happy and optimistic about it

cherrylover's picture

heere is what u do

ur family will love and support u with what u are

if being gay make u happy then dont let anyone tell u differnet,
yes the boys on the basketball team may feel uncomfortable, but they will get used to it, if they are ur friends they will be what friends are

remember
u are who u are
dont let anyone tell u different

be happy, this is ur life and u should be happy and optimistic about it

Tophat's picture

I agree with Cherry.

Despite the fact that her spelling is atrocious.

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cherrylover's picture

Cherry...

my spelling is not atrorcious darling

Tophat's picture

Haha

According to the way you spell atrocious it is. ;D

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
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cherrylover's picture

wah

u are being sooo mean
im going to cry

"sob, sob sob"

ZBoy7's picture

uh thanks

thanks you guys. i'll see what i can do. i will not take your advice for granted. but i might have to take awhile to mentally, emotionally, and (perhaps) physically prepare myself for the mission i'm about to embark on.

cherry, i loved the poems that you wrote in your journal thing, btw.

Tophat's picture

Oh, and you didn't like mine?

Fine, I just won't write any poems for you.

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
-Meher Baba

cherrylover's picture

now stop that

be nice to Zboy7
hes going through a lot

Tophat's picture

Since when...

Did you become Mother Theresa?

You old Sugar Momma, you just want another boy toy.

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
-Meher Baba

cherrylover's picture

u

that is soooo fucking mean

Tophat's picture

Oh...

I sowwy. Does this mean no Porn Party? Ahahahaha!

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cherrylover's picture

CANCELED PORN PARTY

PORN PARTY CANCELED

Tophat's picture

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

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cherrylover's picture

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

ooooooooooooooo YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Tophat's picture

>:O

I will never forgive you for this!

Pleeeease un-cancel it!!!

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cherrylover's picture

NOPE NEVER

NEVER NEVER NEVER

Tophat's picture

D:

Awwww....

*Sniffle* But I looove youuuu....

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cherrylover's picture

Awwwwwwwwwwww

go cry to swimmerguy

ZBoy7's picture

boy toy

what did you mean by "boy toy"?

ferrets's picture

silly

he meant cherrylover just wants to suduce you into bed ;)

experince the awe and mystery that reaches from the deepest inner mind to the outer limits!

ZBoy7's picture

OHHHH

but i don't think any girl could do that... like seduce me to do anything. i'd like throw up.

*no offense cherry*

cherrylover's picture

no offense taken

ferret doesnt know what hes talking about

ZBoy7's picture

oh haha

you're a big help, cherrrrry, i hope ya know that.

cherrylover's picture

thank u

but remember this is ur life
make of it wat u want it to be

NEVER NEVER NEVER let anyon tell u diffenrent

ZBoy7's picture

sure thing

btw, can i come to your cancelled porn party? (sarcasm)

cherrylover's picture

lol

hahaha sure(sarcasm back)
lol

cherrylover's picture

wheres my poem

u never wrote me a poem

ZBoy7's picture

who?

wait was i supposed to?

cherrylover's picture

no

tophat is suppose to

ZBoy7's picture

oh

well i'll write one anyways for you.

cherrylover's picture

awwww

thats soooo sweet
ill write one for u to

cherrylover's picture

love u

take as long as u need to prepare urself
because its going to be hard, but at the end it will be worth it
love u

thank u sweatheart

ZBoy7's picture

tophat

k fine i love poems too(:

and cherry r u a girl? haha sorry random question but i like curious.

cherrylover's picture

its okay love random questions

yes im a girl

ZBoy7's picture

tophat

i love *your* poems too (sorry typo)

ZBoy7's picture

wait what?

then what did tophat mean by "boytoy"?

ferrets's picture

hehe

shes a bit boy crazy ;D

experince the awe and mystery that reaches from the deepest inner mind to the outer limits!