networking woes

ElvenKnight's picture

I have a significant number of Facebook Friends that openly identify as gay/lesbian. In the interest of exapanding my social life I would like to come out to a few of them, but i'm not quite how to go about it because most of them are people that i haven't seen or really spoken to in ages...
I can't just message them and say " Hey, we haven't spoken in forever; but i think i might be gay"

any suggestions?

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jeff's picture

Easy...

On Facebook, put Interested in: Men.

Then put Friendship, Dating, A Relationship under Looking For.

No interaction required.

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"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis

ElvenKnight's picture

I know that

except im not ready to take things THAT far.......

jeff's picture

Eh..

You're in your 20s, no? Who cares? It's actually a good filter. If they care, good, dump'm.

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"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis

ElvenKnight's picture

i was going to say something.

but now i can't remember what.

ElvenKnight's picture

i'm 24.

oh well. i copped out. left Interested In, BLANK....
I'll wait until next week.

two words.

Gay Hockey........

Tophat's picture

Wow.

Okay, seriously? I came out in 8th grade.

Cripes. You must have some serious internalized homophobia issues, love.

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
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elph's picture

Do it only IF you foresee...

that sharing this most intimate aspect of your nature will significantly enhance the quality of your friendships. If it is done merely to titillate (this, I have no way of knowing)... this action would likely prove to be unwise.