so today...

ferrets's picture

on face book ,my ex talked about this guy who was hitting on him today. i had a fucking breakdown, the thought of him with another guy was...horrible. that makes me a terrible person no? so anyway its not only that the thought of him being with anyone else concerns me, but i also worry about his future boyfriend(s) influences on him, i mean what if the guy gets my ex into drugs, or gives him some nasty dieses. im such a wreck, every third though is about my ex(lets call him B) ive learned that im terrible about getting over brakeups :( i feel like theres a furry little ferret in my tummy, slowly gnawing its way out, and whenever i start to think about B the ferret goes on a rampage an tears me all up...


Dracofangxxx's picture

I know what you're talking

I know what you're talking about :(
I'm sorry. *hug* I wish I could help you, but I'm not good at it XD
Sometimes I like to sit at night and stare at the lamppost because it's the brightest thing in my life...

jeff's picture


He's your ex. He lives his life. You live yours.

The issue isn't what your ex is doing, but that you're not over him. That's what you have to work on.

"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis

ferrets's picture

i realize this...

but i cant help but worry. i worry so much. about everything. you know i sometimes worry that the lightbulb in my room will explode when im home alone, sending tiny fragments into my body, and i then must pull out all the little peices or die? well i do.

experince the awe and mystery that reaches from the deepest inner mind to the outer limits!

fox333's picture

*HUGS* I am so clever that


I am so clever that sometimes I don't understand a single word of what I am saying.
Oscar Wilde

lamb_da's picture


oh noes ferrets! *HUG*
DX i'm here for you!

Hi, I'm a reading Rainbow! :)

Uncertain's picture

awh ferrets! trick is to

awh ferrets! trick is to pretend you don't care even if you do. no one's worth drowning in

it doesn't make you a terrible person, but you've got to look after yourself too

carmen143's picture


This is exactly how I felt about my ex after we broke up.

The thing that helped me get over her is deleteing her from my life, on the computer and in real life.

It sucks at the moment but it pays off in the end.

If you ignore him, delete him off facebook, and all that it will make you feel better.

Hope this helps...

<3 FLAME ON! <3

elph's picture

Ditto... Uncertain!

Hey Matthew,

Pay attention! He gives good advice...from a few more years' experience ;)

Btw, Do you see the same ferret-focused ads (below) that I see? Presumably for you...