Oh God, NO!!!

dude.im.a.gaf's picture

I'm kinda really, really scared/ upset, i found out one of my friends likes me; a girl. I don't want to have to tell her, but i don't want to lose her friendship. I think i can make up a plausible and good lie (i have one) but i don't want to lie, i hate it, yet it's so easy. I think i have a plan but if anyone's got something helpful to contribute i'd be grateful.

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swimmerguy's picture

All I've got to say is...

Don't let her get too close to you.

I've had this problem before too.

"I bust mine so I can kick yours" ~ design on a swimming t-shirt

ferrets's picture

scary D:

good luck dear. this is kinda of like a splinter. the quicker you get rid of it the better, lest it fester up, and turn into something nasty

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Wolfcry's picture

I just would have been

I just would have been blunt... Tact ain't in my vocabulary

"And yet, to say the truth, reason and love keep little company together nowadays." -William Shakespear, A Midsummer Night's Dream, Act 3, Scene 1

Dracofangxxx's picture

Just tell her the truth

Just tell her the truth before she gets too attatched :) girls can handle that sorta stuff if it's early on. She'll find someone else soon enough X3
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Wolfcry's picture

Girls kinda scare me

Girls kinda scare me though... especialy when they are pissed...

"And yet, to say the truth, reason and love keep little company together nowadays." -William Shakespear, A Midsummer Night's Dream, Act 3, Scene 1

5thstory's picture

Lying is easy and humane,

Lying is easy and humane, since you can actually make them not feel as bad, so come up with a lie and don't feel bad about it.

" . . . The sun does not shine upon this fair earth to meet frowning eyes, depend upon it." Charles Dickens

Just Dave's picture

Ok

I've been there. I lied to this girl who liked me, and I completely avoided her. Not surprisingly, she hated me for it. Sure, it was is understandable that I wasn't in any position to come out, but that is no excuse. What I did was still cowardly, and stupid.

I'm going to be quite frank. You have to realize that she is in trouble in this situation too. If you lie to her, the only person you will be helping is yourself.

I realize I sound like such a preachy hypocrite by saying that, but I honestly think that its true.