Ok, I just finished reading this series and it's pretty complicated. It's about a hermaphodite who's going through an identity crisis. The person is male on the top with male vocals and female on the bottom. And they can't decide if they're a boy or girl. So they start off dating a girl who was raped when she was younger and hates guys. Then the hermaphodite starting going out with the biggest player in the school.
It's complicated like I said, but I love it! ^_^