I came out to my close friend, but...

Satellite's picture

My life is full of adventures, dilemmas and weird situations.
For now, I'll talk about how I come out to my friend.
...It happened about one year later, in January. She was about to leave the country to get education abroad. And we met, to buy some stuff for the road. Train would leave the city in about 2-3 hours. So, I just told her that I'm bi. And, she said that here is nothing to be shocked, it's quite normal to be bi, gay or lesbian. If you like guys, it's normal. But then, after 2-3 minutes later, she showed me some other girls, asking a question: "do you like this girl?" I told yeah, i'm attracted both of the genders. The thing that bugging me is that she ignores my orientation. She talks to me everything about her relationships, problems with other guys, and needs some advice about why guys acting like that (however, i'm outta stereotypes...) But she never let me to talk about my relationships or anything concerned to this topic. She ignores not me, but my orientation. Cuz, before I not come out to her, she asked how's my life with my ex-girlfriend or ex-girlfriends. I'm lil bit offended to her, why so??? maybe, she's in depression (it's already a year, too) cuz of break-up, or something else. But, this matter still is out of my understanding...


Dracofangxxx's picture

Welcome to Oasis! :) Wow,

Welcome to Oasis! :) Wow, it's lonely here. That's rare :D
My name's Shelby. I think it's incredibly brave of you to come out as bi! Good job! Maybe one thing is that she doesn't think you're having any luck with other boys- Perhaps bring it up yourself? Don't worry about being rude- Most girls as accepting as she seemed to be will listen aptly!
Anyways, hope you love this site, and if you have any questions feel free to PM me and I'll do my best to answer them! <3
You're twisted and perverted. I like that in a person.

Satellite's picture


Hey, Shelby. Thanks for hailing me :P hehehehe

Yeah, that was planned "coming-out" :P thou, that's why I felt easy to tell here everything.