Forgot to say about "M"
we've been best friends for 12+ years. for a short bit we were deciding if we wanted to take the relationship further after she came out to me as lesbian, as well.
we didn't talk for about a year as things have been awful for her and her family. really bad turn of events. and it was right after she and i sorta had this one day where we were really considering becoming girlfriends. anyway, taht idea was broken up.
now, she's been in the hospital for a month. who knows, it could be more. and i can occasionally talk online with her, but only very little.
I really want to pick up a card for her, but what to look for? whats appropriate to say?
i love her. but i cant seem too ....protective and hovering.
need some ideas from you guys/gals/non-guys/non-gals/anything else you may identify as/both/neither/all...(ok, i think you get the point here)