I am new, what do I do?

funnyflyby's picture

hello. I just found out about this whole site last night. I am currently typing out this on my dsiXL, because my internet is easily traced anywhere else. I'm young for this, just 13. I realized I was bi only like a month ago, because I dreamed about kissing the girl who was my best friend in K-2nd grade, and i tried desperately to get back to that dream, because it felt so perfect. i know i'm not lesbian, i had a whopper crush on a boy last year, though. Last night i found this site and was up till 1:30 in the morning reading the forums, even the ones that were started like 5 yrs ago. I love this already. i'm glad of that i live in massachusetts, though. i hope oasis canhelp me as i'm sure some crazy things are going to be driving me crazy... Wish me luck!

ferrets's picture


well probleystart with a journal :)

More people have been slaughtered in the name of religion than for any other single reason. That, my friends, that is true perversion.
-Harvey Milk

swimmerguy's picture

I notice...

You didn't ask her if she liked ferrets? :)

No one escapes from life alive

ferrets's picture


well i was saving it for her first journal!

More people have been slaughtered in the name of religion than for any other single reason. That, my friends, that is true perversion.
-Harvey Milk

hellonwheels's picture


i noticed that as well...lol

Mental wounds not healing, driving me insane, i'm goin' off the rails on a crazy train- the ozzman

swimmerguy's picture

And then

he didn't even do it on her first journal! Jeez.

No one escapes from life alive

funnyflyby's picture


That's because I already said it. Yes, ferrets are great. And people are very much permitted to stop reading this forum topic, as I sound like a moron in it. I'd very much like it to dissappear from active forum topics. I hope that doesn't cause someone to post on it in a year just to annoy me... that'd be kinda mean. Whatever. And just for the record, I am going a little crazy and Oasis is great so far :)

swimmerguy's picture

Since it's already at the top of the active forum topics...

Yes, but he's supposed to post that for everyone!
And yes, Oasis is great.

No one escapes from life alive

MacAvity's picture


Well, first off, welcome.

As to your question of what to do, yeah, like Ferrets said, journals. If there's anything bothering you, anything about which you wouldn't talk with people you know, or pretty much anything else, really, just write it - it feels great to share or just to get it out. Or you could just read, for now, or really whatever you feel like doing. There are no obligations.

As to realising you're bisexual: If that ultimately turns out to be the case, great, but don't be surprised if it doesn't. I didn't start noticing girls until I was fourteen, didn't stop noticing boys until I was fifteen or sixteen, and didn't admit that I could possibly be anything other than straight until I was seventeen... and now I think of myself as pretty much gay. So, I guess my point is...anything can happen.

Anyway, hello and welcome. It's good to have you here.

funnyflyby's picture

ferrets and thank you

actually... as i said i was reading the forums last night and saw people asking about the ferrets, and i thought there wasn't much i could say new! my cousin had 3 ferrets, i called them fred and george and there was always one hiding so i didn't need another name! wow, that was rambly. Thank you, i'll probably just read stuff for a while, until i know more... i really appreciate people replying to me.

cheese's picture

i remember having a dream

i remember having a dream like that. :) it was so long ago.
but anyways, welcome to oasis :)

"i remember when you and me, how we used to be such good friends. wouldnt give me none, when all i wanted was some..."-jack johnson

Delightfuly_Emo's picture

Dreams like that are to be

Dreams like that are to be cherished.
And welcome to Oasis! :)
Feel free to PM if you need to talk or whatever. I'm a computer dork and I'm online most of the time.
So yeah. Welcome!