Never have I ever

centerfielder08's picture

Never have I ever (until today) completely removed my female name from this site. I live my life as a female and though I'm not always completely postive, I consider myself to be a transgendered person. I was born female but this doesn not mean I am a girl.

In order to figure myself out a little more, I decided to take the bull by its horns, so to speak. So please use male pronouns with me. I'm trying this out to see how much I like this with hopes of translating this to my life outside of Oasis, as well.



loreonpravus's picture

Alrighty dude. You da man.

Alrighty dude. You da man.

MacAvity's picture

Congratulations, Eli. It is

Congratulations, Eli.

It is clear that you are taking a careful and well-reasoned approach to your transition. You also seem to have gained a lot of confidence and lost a lot of your melancholy since your realization.

...Cripes, why do I sound so formal? Congratulatory hug!

funnyflyby's picture

Good for you!

Wait, is it okay if I still use 'gaj' for you? As I said, I'm using it for everyone, male, female, or gajindiak. I recognize that you're male; I'm using 'gaj' for perfectly ordinarily gendered people, too, so that's alright, right?

centerfielder08's picture


Loreonpravus--Thanks ^_^
MacAvity-- Thank you very much. Yes, to an extent, I just pretty much realized I can be me and either feel good about it or give myself crap about it. Why make things worse for myself if I don't have to?
Funnyflyby--Yes, you may refer to me using the pronoun "gaj"...especially since when you wrote that, you primarily stated that I am male :D.eeps.

Thank you all.

625539's picture

YAY, I'm glad for you

YAY, I'm glad for you :-)

eyes slanted like blinking lullabies

Grace Hughen's picture

¡Claro que sí, amigo!

¡Claro que sí, amigo!

lamb_da's picture

yay for eli <3 *hugs* You're

yay for eli <3 *hugs*

You're so beautiful, you made me forget my pick up line. ;)

centerfielder08's picture

Magic Fantastic ---

Magic Fantastic --- THANKS!
Grace Hughen--- Si, si. Gracias. Muchas gracias.
Lamb_da--- YAY back! *super hugs*