Two journals in one day? I haven't done this since I was a newbie on here :I But Loreonpravus got me thinkin'
But I have to talk to you guys about something. All you people who have known me on Oasis for a long time, which is barely any of you anymore, know I'm not always this raging bitch.
But you know what? I'm getting increasingly annoyed with Oasis, and everyone on here. Not one person specifically, but the group as a whole.
When I first joined, I was just like the typical Oasis joinee- Very enthused, very excited, albeit some problems. I was really depressed and trying to figure myself out. I tried to keep things happy, though. I made friends.
I remember this atmosphere- I had 27 or something welcome comments. Just welcome comments! Everyone was so friendly. There were a bunch of senior members who did alot of posting- Jeff was more prevalent, Elph was still here and commenting on everything, Pat was writing his books and being a father figure. It was great. Everyone was happy, pleasant, and awesome.
Maybe that's just how I remember it.
But now, this Oasis isn't at all like I remembered it. This doesn't seem to be that happy, welcoming, everyone-comments-on-everything-and-knows-everyone atmosphere we had. Sure, some things are the same- Super Duck and FCG live on, Elph is kind, Swimmerguy loves his swimming, Ferrets loves his Ferrets, Magic Fantastic writes beautiful things, you know.
But what happened to the rest? Jeff is practically nonexistant. We get steady streams of new members, so much that I don't have that feeling of the "One Oasis family" anymore. Everyone complains. I rarely see a happy journal anymore, the forum is absolutely dead. Would it KILL YOU GUYS to say something positive? I am dead tired of reading the same thing- BAWW THEY CALLED ME GAY, BAWW THIS PERSON DOESN'T NOTICE ME, BAWW I HAVE BREASTS.
We're a family. And if I was in the same house as you guys, I'd throw you some Midol and tell you to stick a tampon in it. This isn't what Oasis is about- Constantly trying to figure out who you are and being upset that nobody "Gets" you. No, Oasis is here so that you find people who DO get you- And be happy about it. Make friends. Know who you are because we all accept you. This is a place of happiness and comfort and understanding and all that goodness.
Or at least, it used to be.
I'm not saying to stop being sad. I'm saying, that all this sadness is making everyone ELSE sad. Nobody's happy on here. I swear, it's like Oasis hit the Great Depression. Can you guys TRY to stay positive? Jesus. And before you guys go up in arms, I did my research- At least one person agrees with me!
Can we just stop being Myspace and start being Oasis again? Cause I really don't like the way Oasis is going anymore.
I hate to be the bitch here. But you know what? I'm tired of this. I understand you have problems. WE ALL DO. But some of them you can just figure you for yourself! Jesus!
This bitch is out- <3