There are those lines you just crossed. How don't you see them?

centerfielder08's picture

As annoyed as I may get with my parents, I can do that because they're MY parents. (Dunno if the emphasis is on my or parents).

When I said "I can't" for hanging out, saying "You always can't. Your parents are jail keepers" is inappropriate and you have crossed the line. Don't you see?

We cannot be friends.

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Dracofangxxx's picture

Actually, I don't see lines crossed

I know how that friend feels. Completely. And it sucks, really bad.
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centerfielder08's picture

Jail keepers though, really?

Jail keepers though, really? Don't you think that's just a Bit much?? I don't get it at all whatsoever.

Dracofangxxx's picture

Depends.

If your parents are saying you can't just because, then no. It's not excessive at all. I hate that, "Oh you can't come over? Why not?" "Oh, no reason, my parents just said no" "Well, why'd they say no?" "I dunno."
It's like, there's no point to them saying no. It's obvious that they just want control if they're just telling you no all the time for no reason.

At least, that's how your friend is reacting. I'd say it has to be at least a little bad if they're that upset. But no. It's nothing to be like "YOU DON'T LIKE MY PARENTS, WE'RE NOT FRIENDS ANYMOREEEE" about.

Yeah, maybe it was a bit rude, but I don't see any lines crossed. There's not really a problem here but you getting butthurt about it :I Maybe you should apologize to your friend about how you can't hang out, and how you wish your parents were more lenient, and maybe think about how they feel, instead of just immediately getting upset about what they said.

Anyways. That's my two bits.
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funnyflyby's picture

A bit much...

It really depends on the context... which we don't know. If it bothers you that much, though, I'm sure it was a bit inappropriate.
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centerfielder08's picture

Its also because, well, I

Its also because, well, I don't know how to say this. But the person saying that to me is someone else in my therapy. She's really not supposed to be hanging out with anyone outside of group, none of us are. But she keeps trying to push me to hang out with her.

Dracofangxxx's picture

Well, you see, there.

Not only does that clear up a lot, it makes you sound way less emo-whiney :I

Try to include all details when you write stuff like this, mmkay?
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