so for about a month now i have been wondering or trying to define what my personal sexuality is. its a question that i want to answer and i want to answer soon. for about 3 years now i have identified as bisexual (hence the name) but i have recently realized that i can't see myself with a guy, not do i really want to. when i fantasize about my future life and settling down and having a family, i never have imagined having a husband. it has always been a girl. so i am starting to think that i may be lesbian. i have had a crush on one guy in my life but even then i just found him attractive. not so much that i wanted to date him. i honestly don't know. and i guess that is a question that i have to ask myself but i was wondering if any of you had any advice about figuring myself out or if you've gone through this before.
i also have to think about the fact that (not that this factors in, but) i've come out to a bunch of people. i'd have to re come out and i think that in a way is harder than coming out in the first place, but that is just me. and just a question that i'm going to put out in the open...if i find some guys kind of attractive, but i could never see myself with a guy, is it still possible to be lesbian? i don't know...there are a lot of questions circulating my head right now.
advice would be much appreciated!