You got to love Youtube. I was bored the other night so i started watching the Real L Word on there. It's interesting to watch these 30 yr old lesbians. The one thing that catches my attention though is all the labels they give each other. It's like your not just a lesbian there's a subcategory you can be placed in. I've heard of fem, lipstick, butch, dyke, bulldyke. Then there's tops and bottoms. It just all makes you think, where do I fall in?
I wouldn't call myself a fem because I don't tend to where make up or dress up but I'm also by no means butch. I just like to wear jeans and a t-shirt. Nothing baggy either, I like fitted clothes. I like dresses but i rarely wear them because i prefer tennis shoes over heals. I don't feel girly enough though to be considered a lipstick lesbian.
Hell I don't really consider myself a lesbian. I've only been with one girl, who I am probably going to spend the rest of my life with so I think well I might as well just say I am since I'm going to end up with her. But then I still do find guys attractive. And though I've dated guys in the past I never had a connection with any of them as intense as I currently have with my girlfriend. The best explanation for this I can find is something I heard once "you don't fall in love with a sex you fall in love with a person". If it happens to be a girl so be it.