FACTS ABOUT SEX AND SUCH

ShowMeLove's picture

I think most of us have heard or read at one point or another, some ignorant person say something along the lines of, "Women can't have sex with each other, they need a man to fuck them!" AMIRITE? But in reality most women can't orgasm by intercourse alone. Here look at this quote, "Only 20 percent of women are able to orgasm with intercourse alone, most women need some sort of direct clitoral stimulation." So like... you people have your information wrong. Any time from now on that someone brings up the whole "you need a penis to really be fucked" thing, I'ma bring up the fact that no, I actually don't, I just need someone who knows what they're doing down there.

I think the whole 'Sex is penetration, anything 'less' isn't thing' is just silly. Sex is whatever YOU define it to be and to me it's making love and hopefully reaching climax. I guess I should make it known that I'm a virgin (OH MY GOSH NO WAY. Or you're saying yes, totally guessed. forever alone), so maybe my expectations and views on sex are weird/unreasonable. It's also 5am and I have yet to sleep. Whoo!

I also found this quote on Wikipedia interesting, "As many as 10 percent of women in the United States have never climaxed"

Hmm, unless you were just never interested in having one, or you're physically incapable, I don't no why you wouldn't. Masturbation alone could lead you to at least one and you wouldn't turn back from there. Unless, of course, you simply don't care for it or it totally disgusts you. I get you there.

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elph's picture

"...or it totally disgusts you."

If this ever occurs... I'm so sorry!

This is difficult for me to envisage: Someone can actually be disgusted by a mind-blowing orgasm... however achieved? (SM excluded!!!... my hangup)

Sad!

ShowMeLove's picture

I have heard of such people!

Personally, I think orgasms are awesome :D Though, a little too time consuming to achieve sometimes... and they don't last long enough either.

"Sometimes it takes another to show us the truths we hide from ourselves."
-Leliana, Dragon Age

radiosilence95's picture

YES!

Another virgin on this site! Now I don't feel as bad about being a virgin myself :)

jeff's picture

Yeah...

It's good we all have this site to feel less like freaks for not getting our freaks on.

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"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are." - Kurt Cobain

ShowMeLove's picture

Yes indeed

I feel quite a bit in the minority here on Oasis, for a variety of reasons. hah. Glad there are at least two of us.

"Sometimes it takes another to show us the truths we hide from ourselves."
-Leliana, Dragon Age

MacAvity's picture

Yeah...

I don't think I've ever orgasm'd. I am a virgin, and have no particular intentions of changing that status (maybe it'll happen someday in the distant and unforeseeable future, maybe not)... and I do masturbate once in a while, but have never achieved anything that could be called 'mind-blowing.' I don't mind, though.

ShowMeLove's picture

It took me some time and...

some "research" but eventually I did get there. I was a very "pure" and naive child and was never really all that interested in any of this stuff, but my sex drive seems to have ramped up quite a bit in the past six or so months. Along with a lot of other things. It's been a nice change, though.

"Sometimes it takes another to show us the truths we hide from ourselves."
-Leliana, Dragon Age

Ambition15's picture

Same as MacAvity.

I've never reached anything amazing, and I'm a virgin (and proud to be until I get out of high school.)

"First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they attack you, then you win." -M. Gandhi

ShowMeLove's picture

Good for you!

Definitely no need to rush.

P.S. it just takes some practice and some "research" to reach it ;)

"Sometimes it takes another to show us the truths we hide from ourselves."
-Leliana, Dragon Age