Do you know what's so incredibly annoying? When people can't accept that dynamics and relationships change in the presence of new people. What's even more infuriating is when people get angry about the change in the dynamic or the resistance to that change.
What I'm saying is, when there's two people, and they have a certain type of relationship, how they act changes in the presence and addition of another character. That's certainly not a bad thing and not something to get upset about - human's are fluid beings that reveal key parts of themselves and conduct themselves in changing manners. What I get pissed off about is when people get upset about that change, or when people get upset when that change is resisted. That is, just because someone comes along doesn't mean it's bad, and just because someone's not included isn't a bad thing. It's just a thing, and both things are important.
In relevance to my life, I have my best frand, Hannah. We used to hang out and do everything together, and we still have a meaningful and affectionate relationship. However, Shelbie, Hannah's girlfriend has suddenly become Hannah's foster sister. WHA-BAM! Suddenly I don't have alone time with my best frand. That's not a bad thing at all. What's annoying is the fact that Shelbie gets upset over the fact that Hannah and I both want alone time together. Throw into that Hannah's sister, Emily, who's also stuck in the same position. Except worse - Emily fucking lives with them.
What's even more is the fact that Shelbie gets upset when Hannah and I act in an affectionate and meaningful way. She always calls us a "couple" and has an irrational fear that I'll replace her in her relationship. Even though hannah likes girls and I like boys. See, what I feel like is, well, a sexual object. Suddenly I can't have a non-romantic and completely platonic relationship with my own best frand. Compounded with that is the fact that everyone tries to find me a "boyfriend". For the record, I'm a complete douchebag who is insanely pretentious and judgmental. Sooooooo needless to say, the suggestions all get thrown out. But even still, everyone searches for me, to find me a boyfriend. Like I'm a piece of meat - that I'm a completely sexual object.
I don't want to rush into any fucking relationships. I'm a cynic when it comes to love. And a hopeless romantic... Weird, right? Try living with it - you get some pretty conflicting feelings, thoughts and emotions. But I haven't had any seriously meaningful with boys, so why would I exactly go rush off and find "love". And why would I even think about dating a kid that's not going to the same university as me? Like, fucking seriously. I'm a pretentious douchebag, like I said - I'm not going to date anyone that won't strive for higher education, and I'm not doing this long-distance relationship bullshit. And I have very specific tastes in guys. I like straight hair. WHY DON'T PEOPLE UNDERSTAND THAT?! I FLIPPING STRAIGHTEN MY HAIR! OBVIOUSLY I LIKE STRAIGHT HAIR!
Ugh.... I'm going to bed.