So this is an update about my problem in "Her Confusion".
My girlfriend is now considering actually getting a sex change, she isn't just wondering about the whole transgender thing. Last night she was even discussing names with me.
I have no problem with transgendered people, there's nothing wrong with that in my eyes, but hearing it from my girlfriend is just gnawing at me. I'll always love her, she's the most amazing person I've ever met, but the fact of the matter is that I'm gay. I've had a relationship with a boy before and it didn't feel right. I loved him and I'll admit that the sex felt good but none of it felt right like it does with a girl. I don't know if I'll still be attracted to her if she gets the operation.
I want to be there for her. She seems like she would be a lot happier as a boy but I also know that if I were to tell her these feelings she would drop all consideration of having a sex change. But this isn't about me, it's about her, her life and her happiness. At the same time though it's a huge problem in my mind and it seems wrong not to mention it to her.
Please, can someone offer me some advice?