Mrbaker's picture

What age do you think it is appropriate for someone to lose their virginity??Tell me.

swimmerguy's picture

Whatever age they want to

That depends on your own personal values, not mine or anyone else's. If you feel like you're ready at 10, go for it, if it's 40, that's fine.

kmontoyo's picture

I agree, but only half way

I mean thats true. you should do it whenever you feel ready, but make sure you know what risks or possible consequences you're putting yourself through before it ever happens. At the age of, perhaps, 10 you might be ready to be intimate with your partner. But are you ready to have a baby? My mother had her first child at the age of 13 and it was never planned; just a consequence she had to go through. If you wait too long and a baby ends up being created because of the process, your baby might come out with side affects. It's kind of difficult you know. I'm not trying to scare you or anything lol As long as you know all the information and protection stuff I'm pretty sure you're gonna be okay. Be safe!

Fantastic Rainbows's picture

Yea I'd agree with

Yea I'd agree with swimmerguy,whatever feels right and is healthy for a person,it's a choice and personal preference and no-one can say for another what's right for them. We all need some lovin' so why do we hate?-Santana

Uncertain's picture

I think age 5

I think age 5

rkim1993's picture

Sex in Kindergarten?

... I don't even think we'd know anything about sex at age... But alright. Lmao!

elph's picture

Virginity... a nebulous term...

...with little common agreement.

But... I'm sure masturbation doesn't count! :)

radiosilence95's picture

People mature sexually at

People mature sexually at different ages. Some kids have sex at 13, some at 20, it doesn't matter. When you're ready, you just know. It's impossible to apply a specific age to every single person.

jeff's picture


If you want to lose it at whatever age and you have an interested party very close to your age that's up for it, then have fun.

If you're not sure, but someone older than you keeps saying you're ready and should just enjoy it... then, I'd say you're not ready, and you should tell them it could be years until you're ready. ;-)

This is a largely academic debate, though. I doubt a lot of people sit around wondering "am I ready?!" Usually the hard, err perhaps I should say difficult, part is sorting out the partner with which to lose one's virginity, not whether it is the right time.

Also, there is debate as to gay virginity. Heterosexual virginity seems to be the penis going into the vajeen. But gays often count oral as one virginity and anal as a second one. I can't speak to the gals and where scissoring lands on the V map.

And, of course, everyone knows that if you're drunk, and you have sex, that doesn't count. You're still a virgin when you sober up, which is good news to the purity of Uncertain and a few others on here.

"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (

jeff's picture


I know. Most 14 year old boys I meet, err, nevermind...

"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (

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Dracofangxxx's picture

that's a rather nebulous, close minded statement, isn't it? ;)

Only boy? Ever in the history of ever?
Just teasing :P
That's redick!