I'm not sure if this sounds ignorant and all, but I've heard so often and this was recently an event that happened to me. So the question being, why can't two gay guys be just friends. I wanted to be this guy's friend but he wanted a little more. And here I am like I just wanting to say "I'm just not that into you".
He's a nice guy but we're too different and he's a year younger than me, plus his humor is a completely different taste. So we never make each other laugh. Which to me is a harbinger that it wouldn't work even if we wanted it to. And if that wasen't enough, he doesn't really take care of himself. Sure he's totally "clean" (drug free and such).
But it just doesn't work, there's no click and there's nothing there. Maybe he misinterpreted my friendly nature for an invitation for something more. I have no idea. I don't know how to let him down. He's "crushing" on me and I don't feel the same way. How can I tell him this?
If you need anymore info just ask so we can formulate any ideas. Don't feel obligated, it's cool. As if I know who scanned through my journal. ;-Đ