I hate this!

socialist's picture

Yamamoto's comment on my last journal entry inspired me to tell Brad about everything. There's a problem, though. I've sent him two text messages today (3 hours apart) and he still hasn't replied; he said that his phone turns off all the time, so I'm guessing that's what happened, but if he isn't around his phone or doesn't turn it on, then I'll never be able to tell him. I don't know what to do! I tried playing Skyrim to get my mind off of it, which completely failed. I can't think of anything else now.


stillgotlegs's picture

For once, Yamamoto seemed to

For once, Yamamoto seems to be giving constructive, positive advice! High five!

I wouldn't send him any more texts, just let him think it over a bit more. May be hard not to think about it, but even if he doesn't feel the same way, there are still things you can do to make sure you stay friends. It only becomes awkward if you make it awkward; he'll take his cues from you, really :)

Hope it turns out well, and if it doesn't, then at least you both know where you stand, right?

“Why do you sit there looking like an envelope without any address on it?”

PokemonGeek's picture

I know that feeling all too

I know that feeling all too well. I'm currently going through the same thing except my problem is I want to drug and basically date rape this friend of mine. I think I've repressed feelings for him far too long! I seriously want to drop a sedative in his energy drink and then have fun with his unconscious body! I even sent him a YouTube video that doesn't say how I feel unless he thinks hard about it. The song is "I Wish I Was You Lover" by Sophie B Hawkins.

Poor is the man
Whose pleasures depend
On the permission of another
Love me, that's right, love me
I wanna be your baby
Wanting, needing, waiting
For you to justify my love
Hoping, praying
For you to justify my love
I'm open and ready

Lehcure's picture

What did you text him?

What did you text him?

socialist's picture

The first time,

I texted "Hi." The second time, I texted "Hey, Brad."

elph's picture

Dare I say...

...maybe just a tad taciturn?

Try: "Friends? Any chance?"

Or... at least something a bit more creative!

Yamamoto's picture

Socialist I am going to say

Socialist I am going to say this... when I ment tell him... well this is somthing that you should tell him face to face. This is one of those things that is not good to do over text... espeically if he ends up being gay also and you then want to ask him to be your boyfriend... he is more likely to say no if you ask him over text... I know I would. This is somthing you need to do face to face... I hope that you understood that.

stillgotlegs's picture

Seconded. ___________________


“Why do you sit there looking like an envelope without any address on it?”