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radiosilence95's picture

I now have Brittany's number, thanks to my best friend. And I don't know what to do with it. I don't have the balls to text her. I just don't want it to make everything awkward between us. What if she thinks I'm a creep who went to great lengths to get her number? What if I say all the wrong things? What if she just thinks it's weird? I wish my best friend hadn't given her number to me. Now it's driving me crazy and I'm thinking about it too much. It just seems wrong to text her if I didn't get her number from her personally. UGH.

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RainbowTime's picture

ok...

heres what you do you text her saying you got her number first off and be casual about everything like small talk thats how you make this work i did the same with AJ

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stillgotlegs's picture

Yaay! Why not invite a group

Yaay!

Why not invite a group of people (incl. her) out somewhere? Just tell her that you asked your friend for her number because... you didn't have it? xD

Might not feel so nervous about a group text? Ooh, plus potential of spending time with her in a non-pressured situation. And if she can't come, then now she knows you've got her number, and from her point of view its for a legit reason!
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Lehcure's picture

I agree ^ with inviting her

I agree ^ with inviting her out with a group of friends. That would be the smoothest way of doing things..Or, If you've "flirted "with her before break, just be vaguely honest; you got her number to see how she's doing :) ..I understand your concerns.. but if she holds you in high regards, this could be the opportunity to casually let her know she's on your mind.

socialist's picture

I got Brad's number

from a classmate for a project we were doing with him a few months ago. (I loved working with him and seeing his face closer every day, BTW,) I was in the same position you are for a while. I put the number in my contacts with his name, I gave it a special ringtone and everything, but I was afraid to actually use it. XD Anyway, I got the guts to text him (after about five minutes of staring at a text I wrote) and he didn't seem to care; you're probably just exaggerating like I was. Just text her and start a conversation.

radiosilence95's picture

You guys all make it sound

You guys all make it sound so easy. Okay. I'll text her tomorrow. Something along the lines of "Hey Brittany, this is Jenna. I was gonna ask you for your number before break but I'm hopelessly shy XD So how was your Christmas?"

NO WAIT that's too forward...How about...um..."Brittany, this is Jenna. I hope you don't mind that I got your number from a friend. So what's up?"

NO WAIT that's too weird...um...damn it XD

RainbowTime's picture

the first one if you want to

the first one if you want to get into a talk the second one if your want a shorter talk

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radiosilence95's picture

I'm leaning towards the

I'm leaning towards the first one right now. The second one is too...short, I guess.

RainbowTime's picture

yeah

the first ones good for a longer one as well as hearing about her as the second one is better for you to change the subject or tell her something

passing on my wisdom here apparently this is really useful

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radiosilence95's picture

It is useful! Thank you :)

It is useful! Thank you :)

RainbowTime's picture

your welcome :)

if you need any help just ask :)

i only drink irn bru and the occassional blood of my enemies