Trans Help!!!!

Andrew_E's picture

Hi. I am a 14 year old boy that needs a little help. For one I think I am trans because I have a mind geared towards feminine thoughts, I usually find myself in feminine positions (legs crossed, hands on hips etc.), and I am not comfortable with my guy parts. Also how do I tell my parents that I am trans (if I am). I just need help and I hope someone can give that to me.

jeff's picture

Well...

We do have a lot of trans and such users on here, so I'd just slow down and become a regular user here.

As for your parents, get confident, assured, and comfortable in your own identity first before feeling the need to tell everyone.

And welcome to Oasis!

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"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (http://youtu.be/Z0FrcTX6hWI)

JustCasey's picture

I understand where you're

I understand where you're coming from here, as I have PAIS (Partial Androgen Sensitivity Syndrome) which means although I'm a genetic male I have male and female parts. Please feel free to read my journal, but also feel free to write one...please don't wait nine years like me!!!!!

Casey

oliver's picture

this sounds so familiar...

It wasn't that long ago that I was really struggling to figure out what I am. I can remember looking up quizzes online for male vs female brain type, hoping one of them would tell me what I am. Not knowing was so incredibly stressful! I could feel something was off... but I couldn't figure out quite what it was.

Some of this took longer because while I fit the trans model in a lot of ways, there are a lot of ways in which I don't fit the "normal" model for what a trans person is. I do some things like a boy, some things like a girl. In the end, it wasn't any of these things that made me a boy or a girl, it was how I felt about them.

the real (and helpful) answers came with time.

I wish I had a better answer! But the truth is the best answers are going to come from yourself.

GOOD LUCK! And feel free to msg me anytime if you need support.

tylerking5647891's picture

dating and single (for the moment;))

does anyone know any hot boys from alabama? i need to keep my options open for marriage. you can pm me if you want to talk.

power to the gay pride!!!!

tylerking5647891's picture

post script to previous

by the way my transgender name is patrica.

jeff's picture

Typically...

We don't put e-mail and other contact info on Oasis, btw.

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"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (http://youtu.be/Z0FrcTX6hWI)

tylerking5647891's picture

apologies

sorry i didn't know

jeff's picture

It's more...

for your protection, than anything. I edited the above.

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"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (http://youtu.be/Z0FrcTX6hWI)