So what do you guys think about the straight girls of today holding hands, hugging each other, kissing each other?
I have to say I would find it kind of weird to do that. Maybe it’s like that because I am really really inexperienced. I never had any kind of romantic, not to mention sexual relationship. And I choose my friends very carefully, so that at the end there are always the same good old faithful (female) buddies. But even with them I never got that close, neither intellectually nor physically, that I could maybe be surer about my sexual orientation.
Not too long ago I realized maybe the relationship to my best friend could tell me more. When I see her on old pictures where she's posing with her best friend very physically close, hugging, kissing each other on the cheeks, I kind of get a little jealous. But me, I would just never do those things with her, I even try to avoid them long before I can see them coming. We don't even change in the same room when we're doing sleepovers, which is kind of weird for officially straight girls, I find. So am I doing that because I am maybe a lesbian and I am too shy to take this step to change in the same room with another girl? Also I am pretty sure that she’s straight. And she mentioned that she would not have a problem changing in the same room. If it was too weird, wouldn’t she suspect me to be gay? Or could she just reason it with me just being shy and all that?
Do you think it is normal for a straight girl to avoid being in the same room with another girl?