Ok , Im happy that there are a few people on here that care and try their best to give me advice , but im not miserable 24/7 , I just get very depressed and upset when someone brings the same thing that haunts me up . How would you deal with my situation , would you tell your family whats bothering you , or do you bottle it up until your 18 so you can be on your own and not surround yourself with them . Im also learning how to accept the blunt truth and I thank you all for telling me the hard truth that is painful to come and realize . Like when my cousens came over for a party after the situation , i stayed in the basement cause I knew exactly what theve been told and are making a joke out of me . Should i hide , or can you tell me something to really think of everytime im in this situatiom . It'll really help .