I also saw this piece... considered posting it here... but became just a bit "turned off" when I noted the age of his "bf."

I know... these situations are not too uncommon... but disappointment inevitably lies ahead...

Yeah... the sex (and very likely the gifts) may be nice... but, is it real and lasting? Or, am I being quite unrealistic in wanting it to be "my way?"

Still... I don't feel that kicking him off the team can in any way be justified!