My First Post :)

jazzybchick's picture

Hi everyone! I'm Jazzy. I'm almost 15 years old. I'm a sophomore in high school. I love to dance. It's my lifetime hobby. I'm shy at first but once you get to know me, I'm really outgoing. I love meeting new people. I am trustworthy. I don't know what label you want but I suppose that I am bi or lez. I mean I've dated guys. I wouldn't date any ever again. They just don't catch my eye.
I currently have a girlfriend. We've been together for a whole year and a couple of months :) she's my everything. I think we're going to be together for a long time. So many things have come to try and tear us apart but we've survived every obstacle. Now we are stronger ^.^ I'm glad i met her. Me and her are both gamers and I love that about her. Well I also love her big heart, her eyes, her hair, her voice, her smile, her laugh, her body, her sillyness, her randomness... and so much more <3
I would love to meet new friends so just message me. I'd love to talk and get to know you :P I'm not a creeper so don't worry haha xD

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MaddieJoy's picture

welcome to oasis!

your girlfriend sounds awesome, you're so lucky.

The ducks will get you!

radiosilence95's picture

Welcome!

I'm glad that you're so happy with your girlfriend. That's so sweet :P

Stay awhile. You'll like it here.

anarchist's picture

You know what pisses me off?

There are a shitload of lesbians at my school. I see lesbian couples every day. And then there's only one other gay guy at my school I know of. There used to be two, but one of them transferred to a different school. This is shit. I'm jealous of lesbians. They can do anything they want. And they aren't even condemned in the Bible. Meanwhile, everybody hates us gays.

Fucking lesbians.

elph's picture

A bit bitter? Again?

In high school it has always been much more acceptable for girls to show affection for one another than for boys. Dunno why that is... but that's the way it's played. The girls might be lesbians... but you can't really know, unless, of course, they tell you. :)

As for the gay boys... they're much more private and secretive. But... believe me... they're there!

In another comment I made to you (I think it was earlier this morning), I suggested how the "game" might be played (or, would be played, were I your age and still in the running).

A brief recapitulation: Make friends wherever possible... for the time being, however, all orgasms and their requisite mental fantasies remain your own responsibility! Be patient... and, given a little time, you may be pleasantly surprised to discover how like-minded some of your friends will be (chances probably much greater than the oft-cited 1:10).

Good luck! But continue to play the game now that you know some of the rules! :)

anarchist's picture

No.

This is Maryland. Over half the school is incredibly conservative, so if they're gay, they're probably unaware of it (or denying it) and using homophobia as a subconscious response.

And is it worth going out and talking to people just so I might meet a potential homosexual male who I'm not interested in?

radiosilence95's picture

For the love of fuck.

Quit making everybody else's journals about you.

anarchist's picture

Elph was the one who did it.

I was just replying to him. He should have posted it in the journal I made about this same topic. I don't know why he didn't.

elph's picture

So... I'm the guilty one!

Probably... and for that, I apologize.

But, this is where I found you! Sorry :(

Dracofangxxx's picture

Agreed. Wholeheartedly.

Sorry, newgirl. He does this. Just ignore him.
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That's redick!

elph's picture

You may be right...

right-wing conservatism is a true bane!

But... what're your alternatives?

If all you're looking for is someone to JO with (or something a tad more imaginative)... there's a popular name for that person which I don't think you deserve!

The handsome gay boy for you is there... and, he's probably waiting for you to become his friend... one who may enjoy listening to you speak about your musical interests, experiences in foreign lands, expertise in German, video games, philosophy, etc., etc...

But (unless you're exceptionally lucky) don't expect him to immediately reveal all of his inner feelings for you on the spot!

You've got to be willing to give a little now for possible later rewards: It's called delayed gratification!

anarchist's picture

You mean a true Bain.

What is this name you speak of? I may have heard it, but I can't figure out what you mean.

I'd rather just wait. Life isn't unbearable alone.

elph's picture

You're in high school... right?

Use your dictionary. There's probably even a rudimentary one installed on your computer!

jeff's picture

Err...

Popular?

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"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (http://youtu.be/Z0FrcTX6hWI)

elph's picture

Et tu, Jeff?

You can't be serious!

jeff's picture

Hey...

You give me a set-up, I'll run with it. ;-)

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"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (http://youtu.be/Z0FrcTX6hWI)

jeff's picture

Well...

That makes sense. If there is more lesbian visibility, there is a better chance you would come out if you were a lesbian. If there were more openly gay guys, then even more guys would come out.

The Bible doesn't mention lesbians, because the book is typically anti-woman, so the concept of a woman's sexuality existing outside of men wouldn't have computed.

I still think the effeminate guy at your school should be your friend. Doesn't mean you have to hook up with him, but just for the sake of real world support, you'd probably do each other good.

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"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (http://youtu.be/Z0FrcTX6hWI)

anarchist's picture

He's a senior, anyway.

I don't know. I've never been inclined to actually talk to him or anything. I have wanted to speak to another queer. I have a bit with the one who transferred. He's pretty cool. He dared me to deep-throat the banana I was eating.

elph's picture

Do you suspect...

there may have been a double entendre in there... some place?

Did you convince him of your potential expertise? Any interest?

anarchist's picture

Nope.

He knew I was gay, of course. We had mutual friends (which is the reason I talked to him; he skipped a class and sat at my table to talk with his friends there).
We didn't really talk more than a couple times, anyway.

jeff's picture

Well...

Say hi to him on Facebook or something. Not like you're looking for a hookup or a relationship, so what's the downside?

As for the other one, just toss that right back at him with an easy "I'm afraid it might break off in my throat. Do you have anything else we could use?"

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"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (http://youtu.be/Z0FrcTX6hWI)

anarchist's picture

Yeah.

That's what I was afraid of. Choking on a banana isn't how I want to go.

Actually, someone at lunch last year shared a potentially useful technique on how to eliminate the gag reflex.

jeff's picture

Which is...

... ?!?!?! ;-)

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"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (http://youtu.be/Z0FrcTX6hWI)

anarchist's picture

Figure it out yourself.

I'm not sharing. :)

jeff's picture

How rude...

I could road-test it for you and let you know if it works. ;-)

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"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (http://youtu.be/Z0FrcTX6hWI)

anarchist's picture

I already tested it.

It does work. And it worked for the guy who demonstrated it. Absolutely no gag reflex. It's pretty cool. Might just be a placebo, I don't know.

jazzybchick's picture

we dont just get what we

we dont just get what we want. it takes time. calm down.-Jazzy<3

anarchist's picture

Apologies to jazzybchick for posting irrelevance.

Elph, apologize to her.

jeff's picture

Welcome to Oasis...

Hope you have fun here and meet some cool people.

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"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (http://youtu.be/Z0FrcTX6hWI)

Sam2000's picture

You sound interesting and

You sound interesting and it's great to have new writers on here! Welcome!

I'd like you to write more about your girlfriend and the ups and downs you two have faced, I think that would help a lot of us here.

Sam

Dracofangxxx's picture

Hey, I'm Shelby.

I love to dance, as well. Primarily ballet and hiphop styles w/ plenty of isos.

You and your girlfriend sound adorbs. Lucky you!
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That's redick!

MaddieJoy's picture

hey, I'm a dancer too!

I took 6 yrs of ballet & do tons of musical theatre. Also I'm trying to do drill, AWESOME uniforms! :) But I don't have girlfriend. Yet...

The ducks will get you!

jazzybchick's picture

youd b surprised on how many

youd b surprised on how many girls like dancers :P my girl loves tht i dance. says its attractive and awesome. im more of a soccer lover. good luck with drill :) -Jazzy<3

MaddieJoy's picture

thanks

dance is so beautiful. I'm doing a play right now where we do all kinds of dancing and it's really fun!

The ducks will get you!

jazzybchick's picture

It is :) it's like

It is :) it's like expressing yourself or telling a story through movement. Kill it on that stage :) good luck! -Jazzy<3

MaddieJoy's picture

thx

have you ever seen Indian dancing? They do it pre-show @ my theatre sometimes & it's really cool to see how they've created this dance-language to tell stories with

The ducks will get you!

jazzybchick's picture

Indian dancing? I'm not

Indian dancing? I'm not sure. I've seen Aztec dancing. It's cool. I'd like to see Indian dancing. That'd be awesomee -Jazzy<3

MaddieJoy's picture

I did

yup'ik dancing once, I think that might be similar. it's a dying art though. could you post a video of the aztec dancing?

The ducks will get you!