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DWalk93's picture

So as ive recently stated when im mad i do tend to misspell words lol......anyways you all know i came out to my mother and sisters that i was bi well they came to me earlier today in my office and said that they were sorry they were just shocked because i told them i was a bisexual young man so now im living as a bisexual male because my cclosest friends know and my family so why not lol i even discovered my next door neighbors son was and that he was crushing on me i was sooooo suprised youd have never known untill oneday he asked could he tell me something i said sure he came flat out and said DeVonte im bisexual and i like you a lot i was like awwwww but we've been talking daily considering we live right next door to each other lol again this support ive received from OASIS IS PHENOMENAL!!!!!!!!!!!

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jeff's picture

Cool...

I told you not to go by their initial reaction. It often changes. (Not always, of course, but often, heh).

Glad things have moved so quickly and so well for you...

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"I am living this life as lovingly as I can be as flawed as I am." - Brandon Lacy Campos

DWalk93's picture

Thanks but there us a bigger

Thanks but there us a bigger problem......my father dosent know and hes stated many times he hated gays,bi, lesbian for what reason i have no clue but hes due here for christmas and my neighbor is staying with ne my mom and sisters over the christmas holidays due to an urgent trip to sacramento to care or his ailing grandmother, me and him are mighty close (my neighbor that is) t honestly i could carr less what he thinks of me and T ~B-Town's Finest, aka CountryBoy~D

jeff's picture

Well...

You say he doesn't know and you don't care what he thinks of you. So, two options:
- If he's not really part of your life, who cares if he knows who you really are, as long as you don't have to go out of your way to lie to him or avoid the topic.
- If he's not really part of your life, tell him, and let him react, and either way, it doesn't matter much since you don't care if he knows who you really are.

Sounds all win-win. Either you ignore him and he doesn't know, or he knows and you don't care...

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"I am living this life as lovingly as I can be as flawed as I am." - Brandon Lacy Campos

Bosemaster42's picture

Hey,

It's great your mom came around. Mothers are funny like that. It's probably best to just tell him seeing as you're on a roll. Either way, he's not staying around for long, so there's not much to lose, I suppose.
Best of luck with that and with your neighbor friend.