jazzybchick's picture

I think I love someone, but I like another girl who's into me for sure. What do I do? :l

radiosilence95's picture

Better to pursue a

Better to pursue a relationship in which both people will be involved than chase after someone who just isn't into you.

Perhaps We Should Leave's picture

I respectfully disagree.

Unless you're polyamorous- an unfortunately rare state of being- I should say that it is best not to 'settle'. You will be unhappy with who you are with, and they will sense that you long for another. It will not be pleasant, in the end. Perhaps you will gain temporary reprieve from loneliness, but if you love another you must always look after her. I was in your position for a very long time, and now I am in a happy- if polyamorous- relationship with a man that I have loved and chased for years before I even knew he loved me. And for the first time in my life, I believe that I can be with him for the rest of my life. If you love someone- chase them forever if you must. It is worth the persistence and the pain of singleness when you finally find the one you love. If you're not in love, you will get tired of the chase.

tl;dr: If you love someone, they are worth the hunt. If you are settling, you're setting yourself up for pain.

tl;dr tl;dr Settling is bad.

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jeff's picture

Sounds like...

you shouldn't rush into anything. See what happens...

Otherwise, you could end up with none of them.

"You don't know you're beautiful." - Harry Styles

jazzybchick's picture

Thanks :)

I think I'm going to try being with the girl I like. Because the girl I'm in love with, doesn't like me like that. I'd rather try with someone who actually likes me and cares about me :3