I've been looking up Break-Up cycles on the web, and whilst they all seem fair enough they don't exactly seem to be true. And theres not alot of information out there for the dumper. Everything seems to be for the dumpee. Now I know it would probably be foolish to assume every heart break is the same, because it is not, but still I'd like some sort of ball park figure as to what I am about to go through?
Soooo for all you dumpers out there what was it like? Did you feel pain straight away? Or if you didn't when did it start to kick in? Did you try and get them back after a while?
At the moment I feel fine, which is contrary to when me and Jake used to have our little fights every now and then and he would break up with me, in which I would feel absolutely devastated. I sometimes listen to sad music now and then and try and cry a little bit because I feel that's what I should do, and I guess if I really think about it and what it all means I start to feel physically sick in my stomach, but usually that's at night and I take a Xanex. And I like the Xanax, I just take it whenever I get sick of thinking about everything and I dont dream on it so I don't wake up feeling like shithouse, because I just dreamt of him so I feel good and rested while feeling a little disappointed when I come to the realization I am no longer with him, in the way I had once hoped and longed for.
Thanks in advance,