Ok, Why is it that just when I start to get to know a guy, and he *apparently" has an interest in me as well, he hooks up with some other guy ?!?!?!?!?!?! Gee. I'm sorry if I am of the old fashioned type that takes time to get to know a guy. I don't rush into anything and yet that is to my detriment (sp?) Why on earth is it so hard to find a mature minded guy??? am I the only one out there?