so about a year ago i came out to my best friend who was totally cool with it. then on my 14th birthday i told all my friends and of course they were cool with it. i wasnt expecting everyone to be so supportive and when they were it was a big weight lifted off my shoulders. so about 3 months later i got the courage to tell my crush that i liked her. all my friends had been telling me it would be okay and that she would understand, thats not how it played out.