I found another site for those of us who have questions about coming out to family and friends. Its. : About.com
GLBT Teens and family talk about their reactions to coming out to others. Check it out sometime. But remember your friends are here on Oasis.
Well we moved from Geneva Alabama to Chattahoochee Fla. What there you ask...Not much let me tell you. The town if you can call it that is about 3900 people. We are in a City owned RV court on the west side of the town and its really nice actually. Club house for meetings, laundry, fishing ponds, bath house. Well cared for. Robb wrecked the car so we are not able to go to town often thank heavens the grocery store is with in walking distance. We have a friend in Tallahassee Fl who is supposed to be here tomorrow to take us car shopping.
Spice, my Siberian husky that I have had for almost 18 years is now gone. One of the cats opened the Door to the RV two nights ago because I forgot to latch it somehow and they ALL got out at night. The cats don't wonder far, Spirit our Lab sticks around but Spice the old girl wonders afar. She some how got down by the local creek and ...well that's as much as we know.
Well my other half and I are now totally retired as of October 2008 ! We sold our home in Colorado. Bought a used motor home. Fixed it up and now are on the road.
We traveled south From Colorado into Texas. Stayed a week near Dumas Tx and enjoyed the warmer weather. Fixed a few things on the RV that we notice were not working right, then hit the road again.
A week later we were in Louisiana near a town called Monroe. Nice place to visit but not to live...boring place really. So down the road we go.
I found such a neat place to talk, chat, exchange ideas, and such. It is a chat room, but so unlike any that i found before. Here i can see who i am talking to and interact with them. No not their pic, not a cam, but a avaitar type of thing, a sim if u will. i choise a body type, a hair style, clothing to ware, and so on until i had a person who looked like me looking back at me on the monitor.
Boring....Yesterday, today, and tomorrow I am going to be snowed in.
We have had over 22 inches of snow in the last two weeks. Drifts block the roads, Hiways are slick with snow and ice. Old man Winter is doing his work well. Ah such is the life living in Colorado. Its great if you ski, but there is no hills where I live to ski on. Its flat here in the eastern plains of the state.
your heartfelt feelings make me feel better. I do have contact with the girl but feel it is now better off left alone....one conselation is that we named the boy, she now has to rename it and it will cost her 300 dollars to do that.
Also She had nothing for the baby at all, no crib, no clothes, no food etc. So she must shell out a lot of money now and she doesnt have it... I feel so sorry for the baby who fortunately wont remember it as he grows older.
It seems that my lover and I are on an emotional roll-a-coster ride. We had the adoption papers all signed, The baby was born, and all seemed to be in order...then...SHIT happens....The mother changes her mind because the Dr who is a Christian Fundamentalist Baptist told her that she should not give up a child to a "Gay Couple" as it will get aids.
Where in Gods name did he get that crap....He is supposed to be a Dr. and know you dont get aids by touching someone. And a negitive hiv test means no HIV or Aids....So...We do NOT get to get the baby after all...We are just heartbroken...All the time, effort, and emotional effort not to mention the money we spent ( over $5000.00) to do this and its all for nothing.
Derik Ian was born today at 3:06 am, 7 lbs 3 1/2 oz , 22 inches long.
all ten toes and fingers, redish blond hair and steel gray eyes.
I am the happest person in the world right now.
We get to take him home on Weds. afternoon...
Twas the night after christmas,
and all thru the house,
every creature was sturring ,
including the mouse.
The stockings were thrown,
in the corner who cared,
dishes were piled ,
miles high up the stairs.
Grand pa and Grand ma
were singing a song,
while junior was upstairs,
a flinging his dong.
The children were all snug,
and tucked in to bed,
while visions of tits and dicks,
Last tuesday was the last heart surgery I should need...Dr said I would need about 3 or 4 months off to recooperate and then I can go back to work...thank goodness...I am bored sitting around the house all the time...We met with the babys mother this week and she will provide breast milk for two months for the baby...That is a blessing for us...saves money on formula and is the best for the baby too as he will get the antibodys and enzimes he needs to keep him healthy for some time...Thank you all for the best wishes too...It means so much to Robb and I for them...Its good to be back and well...talk to you all later and as needed as always..