Okay, so I'm here in mexico staying with some family friends, and their relatives (oh, yeah, and my family), and there is this little kid here who is absolutely convinced that I am a boy. I am, by the way for anyone who cares, (believe it or not) biologically female.
so, i often say i'm much more of a man than a woman, right?
but i'm not. i am, but i'm not. i say 'man', because i have no other words, but really, i like to think that i'm both, or neither.
pat just called me a woman in a message...and (in context) it was like this huge compliment (dunno how you intended it, but that's how i took it).