i'm pissed at pat. not pissed, really, just...dude, you can't leave! we want you to be here. me especially. you're something solid to lean on, you've got a lot of good stuff to say, and you're cool!
i totally get if you need to take a step back...i need that too, sometimes. and i definitely get feeling like you're always giving, and never 'getting', and how totally exhausting that can be (my therepist yells at me all the time for doing it).
So Adrian and Jeff gave me my own Oasis email address today (email@example.com). I still need to set my Outlook account to retrieve any mail that I get, but other than that it's good to go, so if you want to reach me with business other than Gay Like Me stuff (that address is still firstname.lastname@example.org) just use my new Oasis addy.
Thanks J & A! This really makes me feel at home!